Hindsight is always 10/10
Well in my openion understanding the above sentence means, going to the root of any conversation.Cause once we are aware of this fact,we can easily make out if a person is talking out of his/her hindsight or what!
Defining this notion in exact words is a bit difficult as it deals with the intricate psychology of the conversation.
Anytime when a person is talking ,he often switches the hidden contexts better known to his own mind or soul and it can happen when the situation has already occurred and you see the response either from situation or person is not going in your favour;someway or the other you try to wrap the things under different covering.
e.g. If 'A' has just watched some interesting movie and is so excited that wants to share the experience with someone and so goes to a close friend of his 'B'.
'B' is currently in a very different mood.Lets assume he is already late on his date and thinking and shortlisting various excuses to give to his GF...suddenly 'A' enters...out of the movie excitement somehow fails to catch 'B's mood and asks him to listen to the story.'B' abruptly dismisses him and perhaps reacts in the way he never did or was never expected to.'A' really feels sad,and 'B' now understands the situation and tells 'A',Hey Buddy,even I wanna watch it,this way you will all disturb my interest in the story...and tries to butter his friend with the most convincing answer could come up with at that moment with a more friendliness.
Meanwhile 'A' also has come out of his excitement though not totally and is a bit happy after disappointment.
Here Hindsight comes into the picture !
Actually when 'B' interrupted 'A' that was with different hidden context in the mind or intention but as soon as he saw and felt things going not in his favour (fear of hurting a friend) he simply changed the whole tone and perspective of the happening;cause he was in a perfct position to think what exactly is going to happen.
So whenevr we say something and other percepts it in the way we don't want them to ,we play a safe game rather than playing a blaming game.Cause we have understood the way the things are not supposed to go...
This is a very small e.g.but if the concept is crystal clear,you can really understand what's unspoken and was never conveyed....but better unsaid !!!
Defining this notion in exact words is a bit difficult as it deals with the intricate psychology of the conversation.
Anytime when a person is talking ,he often switches the hidden contexts better known to his own mind or soul and it can happen when the situation has already occurred and you see the response either from situation or person is not going in your favour;someway or the other you try to wrap the things under different covering.
e.g. If 'A' has just watched some interesting movie and is so excited that wants to share the experience with someone and so goes to a close friend of his 'B'.
'B' is currently in a very different mood.Lets assume he is already late on his date and thinking and shortlisting various excuses to give to his GF...suddenly 'A' enters...out of the movie excitement somehow fails to catch 'B's mood and asks him to listen to the story.'B' abruptly dismisses him and perhaps reacts in the way he never did or was never expected to.'A' really feels sad,and 'B' now understands the situation and tells 'A',Hey Buddy,even I wanna watch it,this way you will all disturb my interest in the story...and tries to butter his friend with the most convincing answer could come up with at that moment with a more friendliness.
Meanwhile 'A' also has come out of his excitement though not totally and is a bit happy after disappointment.
Here Hindsight comes into the picture !
Actually when 'B' interrupted 'A' that was with different hidden context in the mind or intention but as soon as he saw and felt things going not in his favour (fear of hurting a friend) he simply changed the whole tone and perspective of the happening;cause he was in a perfct position to think what exactly is going to happen.
So whenevr we say something and other percepts it in the way we don't want them to ,we play a safe game rather than playing a blaming game.Cause we have understood the way the things are not supposed to go...
This is a very small e.g.but if the concept is crystal clear,you can really understand what's unspoken and was never conveyed....but better unsaid !!!
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